I don't ever online date, so this is hard, and feels a bit dumb to be talking myself up like you are a job to apply for. I have no idea if I am the right one for you, and almost always make choices of this sort in a fluid and intuited way, so if I messaged you, or tried to become "friends" then I probably felt that surge of whatever that feeling is when you see that you could be the reflection in someone else's puddle and know they'd be game to soak up your world and smile up their best reflections ....