Geek/nerd/techie/gamer type. Very empathic. Have a house, a car, good job, excellent credit. No drugs. No record. No smoking or drinking. Never been married but I have a fifteen month old baby girl who is my life. It’s ok to ask. I can hold a conversation. Not looking for hookups. Treat female conversations like it’s a privilege and that their time is valuable. Basic starting point I would say.